Forgiveness + Etsy News

Posted on Wednesday, November 28th, 2012

 

{My beautiful girl captured by Courtney Vickers Photography}

In the checkout line at Target recently, my five year old asked the lady at the register if she had any of the dog stickers (our target always gives them out to kids). The lady nicely explained that she didn’t. They had run out and were waiting to get more. She explained that she LOVED to give stickers and was so very sorry that she didn’t have any for her. My girl stood there listening and when the lady finished apologizing… she replied with something I did NOT see coming.

With complete sincerity, she said ” It’s OK. I forgive you.”

Well of course, I couldn’t help but squeak out a laugh, as did the lady at the register, and most of the line. My daughter was confused at to what was funny, and in that moment I totally saw the concept of “forgive and forget” from a child’s perspective. Though I know there was disappointment (we all know kids LOVE stickers), she listened, she forgave that there were not any stickers, and she moved on. Easy. I have heard her say this comment a few times since when people apologize for something and while I still giggle, I love how pure and easy it is for her.

There is a reason I am sharing this story today…and here it is. My biggest struggle is being able to forgive myself for choices I make….the silliest part is that EVEN if I know I made the right choice, I have a sense of guilt that someone or something won’t approve. I think that it’s something many of us deal with…we want to “do it all”…without help. And if we can’t do just one thing…it’s tough to forgive yourself for “letting it go”.

I am very excited to be working on a brand new website that I think will have a little something for everyone. I have been working behind the scenes and chatting with a few peers about it, and I am so excited to make it happen…but I know I can’t do it all. My little guy has his birthday party in a week and a half, I am working on some corporate and custom projects, and this year I want to make sure I can do the fun family Christmas activities we love when the kids are off school. I had to find a place to make up time, and decided that I would put the Etsy Shop on vacation for December while I focus on birthdays, holidays, custom work, and A BIG NEW WEBSITE!!! I will still be here blogging and with giveaways and freebies, so it’s only the Etsy shop that will be on vacation (not me).┬áI hate to have it closed so long, but I know it’s the only way to wrap up the other projects and not sacrifice family time. This season I am going to keep reminding myself that it’s ok to forgive myself for not doing it all.

This is the season for joy, peace, and love, and I don’t want to ruin it by being a big stressed out crazy mom…so I am doing what I can do, and forgiving myself for the things I can’t. Then I will simply move on, just like my five year old taught me.

0 thoughts on “Forgiveness + Etsy News

  1. Love it! It’s hard to “do it all.” I felt guilty just yesterday by saying I would not work Christmas week. Good for you — and what a sweet girl you’ve raised!

  2. LOL, my daughter says the exact same phrase. It is just adorable!

    I can completely relate! I have done the same thing with my shops. While I feel bad that I am closing them for so long, I am feeling better about the fact I can focus on finishing up orders, my daughter’s birthday, getting well (I have been sick for a couple weeks) and the holidays.

  3. Good for you, Kori! Can’t wait for your new exciting venture! Also, LOVE the Target story…so cute. :)

  4. So proud of your girl (and you too!). Can’t wait to see what’s new; you always come up with the most beautiful things!

  5. Lisa Frank on said:

    I have one little suggestion as you’re working on your new site…could you make your text larger? At least on my computer, it shows up very small (not a standard size) and is very hard to read. Thanks! :)

    • Thanks Lisa!! Will do! I can try to make it larger here too! I really appreciate the feedback!

    • That’s so funny! I was just thinking the same thing as I read this post and wondering if I was just getting old! I’m usually a huge fan of smaller type, too. Guess I’m no spring chicken anymore, huh, Kori? :)

      • LOL It’s funny Jenni because I always liked it smaller too…but it was looking too small lately! LOL I guess we are growing up!

  6. Nancy McPherson on said:

    Awesome post Kori!! And you are so right! Enjoy the family!! Beautiful picture too!!

  7. Kori, I loved this blog post. What a sweet story about Charlotte…and forgiveness! AND I am so glad that you are putting your priorities in the right order, allowing yourself to do that, and not let the most precious moments pass you buy. Glad to hear about your new site, I am SO looking forward to hearing about it!

  8. Awwwwww, loved this post! Wishing you a wonderful birthday, holiday, & new website kind of celebrating season! xoxo, Jenny

  9. You’re amazing Kori! So thrilled for the new doors YOU are opening and for the beautiful future of it all! You deserve the very best! xo

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